But all of that counts to nothing if you can’t be a real man and impress the girl on your first real date together.
After all, a first date is the real test of a guy as a dating potential.
It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning.
You may have taken your time to woo this girl, and you may have impressed her enough into liking you for the guy you are.• Be doggedly attentive and affectionate -- do things for women, from grocery shopping to rubbing their tired feet to being a sociable party companion and more. But even if not, she has something to say and longs to be heard. Next time, we'll talk about sex and money, and start talking about some advice for women over 50 in the dating world.• But by far the most important advice I can give is LISTEN! Yes, money is important (I don't have much, so I can only assume from what I've heard), and being attractive is great (I'm not Clooney but I try my best.) But listening trumps them all. Being genuinely interested in hearing about their histories, their successes, their disappointments, their journeys yet to take. • And fourth, listening is an amazingly under-appreciated talent. Hearing someone's story and details about their life is what it's all about, as far as I'm concerned. But if you place a frog in a pot of tepid water and start to boil the water very slowly, the frog would continue to stay in the pot of water until it boils to death.Now this may be a metaphor to prove a cautionary tale about change and our inability to see the signs.But what do you do when you’re manipulated just a little bit every day?What do you do if you just don’t realize you’re being tricked and duped into abuse with sweet words of love?Alcohol should be introduced into the relationship slowly, but if a drink or two takes the edge off, and wine adds romance it's fine. But the one thing that should never happen is excessive application: too much, too many colors, or if it's just a botched attempt at a good makeup technique.A first date is all about making a perfect impression.But dating can and should be energizing, exciting and educational.Far too many women over 50 are unhappy with the dating world, especially the Internet dating world. I almost always enjoy the date, whether it leads to a second one, a 10th one, a relationship, or whether we say goodbye after two hours together.