Maybe it’s because I felt like it would be a little conceited to talk about how awesome INFJs are in relationships when I am one.Maybe it’s because pretty much every book out there says that INFJs do best with other intuitive types, and I’m married to a sensor. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that, like I’ve said before, I’m NOT a relationship expert and so I believe that (often) people take the MBTI® too seriously in their relationships.It does not just extend to the difference or similarity in individual preferences but goes deeper than that.INFJs are generally attracted to energetic, friendly ENFPs.
Specifically, we will be looking at the joys of this relationship as well as the struggles this relationship may have.The INFJ has the same skill at idea generation that the ENTP has.When the ENTP talks, the INFJ can listen and understand his very advanced intuitions. The INFJ finds people systems more interesting; the ENTP systems of things. The ENTP talks and the INFJ comprehends and listens automatically.The INFJ-ENFP relationship has 2 preference similarities and 2 preference differences.Regardless of the number of similarities and differences, each personality combination will have its unique set of challenges.Also known as “The Counselor” — kinda ironic considering my dream of being a psychotherapist someday — INFJ’s auxiliary function of extraverted feeling means they are one of the types who are most genuinely interested in other people.So, it should probably come as no surprise that this shit is fucking fascinating to me.That means the ENTP feels listened to and completely understood.” Feeling understood isn’t the only attractive quality about an ENx P partner or friend.We may also feel understood by other NF types, like INFPs; other Ni-dom types, like INTJs; and of course, other INFJs.Life is fun with ENFPs, who never tire of developing new interests.They’re at their best in situations that are fluid and changing.